I did not refuse to answer. I said I don't know and therefore cannot speak for God with any degree of authority. I also told you that I, personally, have no problem with it at all, so I can speak for myself. Not every Christian has theological answers for every question, and this is one such case for me. I am still working through many, many theological questions, and have many unanswered questions. That is where I am at in my journey of faith, so to give a definitive answer theologically, would have been a lie. I can assure you that isn't a personal attack on you or gay people at all, and I can only reiterate that I personally have no problem with gay people having sex. I'm sorry that you make assumptions about me as a result, based on a misunderstanding of my original comment. I am sorry I upset and offended you. I wish you all the best, and nothing but good. :)