I no longer care, as a very freeing apathy sank in long ago, but the fact is most of these extrovert nitwits (typically ESFJ types) refuse to acknowledge any other way of dealing with life other than their own. They also feel threatened by anything "other" and fail to comprehend that whilst they blither on at us, encouraging us to be sociable and step out of our (if you'll forgive my use of an obscenity) "comfort zones", it might be better for them to step out of their "comfort zones" by shutting up and leaving us alone. Why should we always be the ones who have to be uncomfortable?