It never ceases to astonish me that people give an airborne fornication about celebrity gossip, so no, my excitement, such as it was, wasn't ruined. On the whole I think the criticism of Olivia Wilde has been a sexist double standard. I touch on that briefly in my review, if you're interested in my thoughts on the film itself:

https://medium.com/simon-dillon-cinema/film-review-dont-worry-darling-155310e0e7b1