My wife is also what is colloquially referred to here as a "Vorderman" (as in Carol Vorderman, although I doubt you'll know who she is if you've not lived in the UK and watched Channel 4's Countdown game). The point is, she looks a lot younger than she is. Only recently has she stopped being IDed for booze, and I'm starting to get "well she obviously married him for the money" looks when we're out together.