Sorry to hear that. I am not really a kid person either (other than my own), with very rare exceptions. My children's friends are generally terrified of me because 1) my children tell them deliberately exaggerated stories (and sometimes outright lies) to encourage this fear, which I'm quite happy to let them do, and 2) the INTJ death stare (which in truth simply means I'm thinking) freaks them out. I'm fine with this. I'd rather be feared than loved.