That last screenshot in particular is horrifyingly stupid. It's essentially a demand that falsely accused men act as a pseudo-Christ figure to take on the sins of all men. Utter insanity. I know some are criticising you for taking isolated cases, but these aren't isolated, sadly. You're only scratching the surface. Yes, I know not all feminists think that way (obviously) but there are enough contaminating the discussion to render the term all but useless these days.
Everything you say here is sensible. I'm a Christian, but I don't call myself "evangelical" due to what it has come to mean (ie right-wing Trump-worshipping American). For the same reason, I no longer call myself a feminist, because of the baggage now associated with that term. Instead I call myself an "equal rights advocate" if necessary, which in a sensible world it shouldn't be, but since when was our world sensible?